“Children must be taught only those things that are suitable to their age. Some parents are pleased when their children can talk in a precocious manner at an early age…It is just as insufferable when a child already wants to keep up with the latest fashions…But children become vain when one chatters to them quite early about how beautiful they are…Finery is not suitable to children…But the parents must also attach no value to these things, not look at themselves in the mirror, for here as everywhere example is all-powerful and reinforces or destroys good teaching” (Kant).
We see this a lot with youth today. They are thrust into what we may consider adult activity and consumption patterns for a multitude of reasons: parents and family members give kids material things to compensate for whatever is lacking at home, youth are able to live a large part of their lives outside of their parents’ supervision because of the time spent in “virtual reality” or just outside of the home, parents want to be their children’s “friends” because they think it will keep kids emotionally close to them so they allow behavior that they would otherwise deem inappropriate, parents think that kids’ who take on adult qualities are more mature or “smarter” so they encourage it, kids feel that they have to take on adult traits at a young age because they are caregivers and/or responsible family members really early on, etc. I’m wondering, what’s the school’s role in all of this? Are teachers and administrators responsible for addressing these kinds of behavior as they see it in their students? Or is it solely the responsibility of the family?
In today's educational environment, it isn't just the family and the school that are to be considered...mass media and commercialization have to be considered as well. Why do parents commit these mistakes? In part, it could be their own education was inadequate...however, in perhaps larger part, it's that no one considered it necessary to educate THEIR parents to resist capitalism...perhaps, in part, because of the demonization of communism and the concommitant worship of the generation of wealth through the exploitation (referred to as providing desired goods and services) of the public. So...who's in charge now? And where is there room to turn to someone such as Kant for a reconsideration of the process and effects?
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DeleteYou make a very useful point: lots of people try to abstract idealism from reality and end up trying to abide by their ideals of morality while not messing with the way society and the economy is run... despite their ideals being incompatible with societal organization!
DeleteI think the denial of political and economic influences makes people all the less able to cope with the negative influences coming from all directions.
Vygotsky was a psychologist who did good work in investigating Sociohistorical Psychology, in which education is a primary concern: http://www.sonic.net/~cr2/sociohis.htm